I thought I blogged about this, but I just realized I didn't! Here's a good explanation of how Lauren, Monte, and I work as a triad team.
The thin leash on the left is attached to Monte's head collar. (It can look a little like a muzzle, but it's similar to a horse bridal in that it just allows us to "steer" him by the head rather than his neck. He can open his mouth fully with this on.) I always have full control of this leash, I wear it as a hands-free leash, it goes on like a cross body bag, so I have full use of my hands (necessary for all kids, especially kids like Lauren, lol).
The thicker leash you see on the right is connected around Lauren's waist and attaches to a silver loop on Monte's pack. This physically stops her from eloping. He will either stand and refuse to move or lay down if she tries. Generally, if we're just all walking, he just walks at a normal pace. If she starts to bolt, he resists and then I can then stop and talk to her, get more on eye level, and try to talk through the problem.
When they aren't tethered, he will stand in front of her and physically block her from eloping. He's only actually had to do this a couple times. The truth is, when he's with us, she's much less likely to run. She loves him and he gives her a sense of purpose and responsibility. There's a small handle on his pack that she will sometimes hold onto. Other times she'll hold onto his leash with me. Other times she will just rest a hand on him. Other times she will just walk next to him. This can be tricky, because usually then he tries to block her (even when not neccesary) and just gets in front of her and she gets irritated. It's a bit of a work in progress, I think he feels like he needs to be touching her or connected to her while we're out in public. Lauren generally goes with the program! The only time we really force the tethering on Lauren is if we're somewhere where we KNOW it's going to be hard for her. Church is rough because it's loud, crowded, and generally a huge trigger. Places like Target, etc that can be quieter she tends to listen a little better. But she also knows she gets no chances. If she tries to elope, they get hooked together. And sometimes we give her a choice and she will choose to be tethered to him.
My picture says autism anchor dog. That's technically what Monte is. Lauren doesn't have autism, but kids with Down syndrome can (and Lauren does) share a lot of characteristics with someone on the autism spectrum. Lauren tends to elope, she has sensory issues, she wanders (different from eloping), she has meltdowns. Monte helps her with all of this. The sensory input of Monte's fur helps give her sensory input. If she's freaking out because something is loud, or hurts, or is bothering her, she can pet or hug him and he calms down her overactive sensory system. He blocks others from getting too close to her during a meltdown or when we're out in public. (As you probably know, Lauren is not your "they're always so sweet" kid with Down syndrome. She likes her personal space from strangers.) He stops her from eloping (running away). He stops her from wandering (aimlessly wandering away from us because she can be so off focus and off task that she doesn't generally realize that she's walking away from us and into danger).
Basically, he's her lifeline. Where she goes, he goes (outside of school and brave moments on my part). He seems a little lost without her sometimes during the day and he'll wander around the house. He loves his downtime, don't get me wrong! And he can be a crazy dog when he's "off duty". But he luckily really has a drive to work and is amazing as soon as we give him the "dress" command and put his gear on.